Archive for 2016

Situations basically reveal what a guy is to a girl whether he is a bad ass guy, Fake guy, real guy or a nice guy. All these categories of guys depicts his personality and what makes him thick, the one most girls fall for are not the bad ass guy or the nice guy, but they are the real guys. The ironic truth is every girl says “I like a nice guy” I would consider dating a nice guy but they are always attracted and drawn to real guys . Some people mistake this for bad guys. Don’t get me wrong, girls absolutely love a guy that is nice but definitely doesn’t like a guy who goes over bored in trying to please them all the time especially if they are not in a relationship. A regular guy can be nice but a nice guy almost always ends up looking desperate to please her. Real guys on other take hand takes absolute control of any situation with a girl or the girl he likes. They have this matured way of attracting or hypnotizing a girl.

WAYS TO BE A REAL GUY

1.Self respect: real guys have self respect aura around them they possess confident look, they are manned, bold and are able to impose their presence without been lousy

2.Social strength/proof: girls are programmed to like guys that are popular especially with other girls. A real guy has social proof and he is very able to adapt into the social life.

3.Taking charge: this doesn’t mean domineering, it means you are able to man enough any situations, make decision clearly and also be gentle about it. Girls absolutely love a guy that can take control.

4.Be a rock: or incredible hulk, don’t ever let your emotions get the better of you, never show insecurities, Sometimes behave indifferent. Be independent also and possess maximum confidence

5.Don’t get over bored apologizing: nice guys can say sorry for everything which becomes irritating. Only say sorry when you have done something wrong. Let your sorry be scarce, she only get eager for you.

6.Great look: fashion conscious, good looks, well behaved manner, these attributes make every girl attracted to a guy; just make a way to get you.

7.Learn the art of love: A guy who wants to be a real guy must know the important ingredient of love, how to take the girl away to the moon, and show her love, understanding, respect, caring and all the beautiful sides of love.

8.Have a life: as a guy, your career should be your paramount priority a real guy always strives to do something incredible with his life, either in sport, art, and musical endeavors. Whatever it is, it attracts a lady in sunlight degree.

9.Personality: this should be your alter-ego. What people can say about you, the kind of person you are? A real guy or a nice guy. What will a girl say about you?

So recently, have been thinking how some students have been able to come up with excellent grades and incredible G.P and I was reviewing my life and how my G.P has ran in a snail pace, of course like every other concerned student in Unilag. I wanted a better grade, my night became long, I couldn’t sleep because the memory of my G.P kept on crawling into my mind.

So my thought wanders wide and I caught a glimpse of students with good grades in my imagination. Observe similar traits they possess. And said to myself, probably that why they have better grades and to flourish in this life. Learning is important, you can learn from the anything or anyone; friends, elders and your colleagues, so I decided to evaluate their lives and why they have better grades and I came up with this similar trait they possess.

Five ways to come out with good grades

Ø Positive thinking

Ø Right company

Ø Soak yourself in reading

Ø Time table

Ø Have loads of fun

Positive thinking: I have a very close friend whose G.P is skyrocketing and we are literally together 24/7 but he absolutely believes in himself. He believes he can always do well, so I thought. It starts from the mental and psychological stimulation to believe

in one’s ability no matter how unprepared you are, you must first be psychological wealthy. Meaning you have to believe in yourself and I found out that all student with high G.P have one thing in common positive outlook. Believing in there inward abilities.

Right company: the saying goes; your friends define who you are. The company of people you have has a large chunk of influence in your life either in a positive way or a negative way. Directly or indirectly, our company is what makes us. In my philosophy of life, I believe walking with people smarter than you make you even smarter because you would want to live to standard. Therefore to have good grades; you need to have the right clique of company. It’s alright to be alone but more fulfilling to have at least 2 or more people that can push you from your comfort zone to help you study better, helps with assignment and G.P generally.

Soak yourself in studying: one thing I have noticed about flying G.P’s basically is to soak yourself into studying, this set of people started before everybody. I mean, when you soak yourself into studying it will pay during exam period but trying to catch everything during exams would not produce a flying G.P. constant reading, getting enough materials, study hard and when it comes to lecture free period, it would be easy to assimilate and consequently do well in the exam because you have soaked yourself to studying.

Time table: the power of time table is never known until it’s drafted. One thing I noticed about these students is that they all have a drafted time table for their studies; these helps you to know what you are doing and puts you in check of your courses and how to go about it.

Time table may not work for everybody, but those that want to structure and arrange their time properly. A drafted time table is needed.

Have fun: I mean life without fun is not fun. You have to rest and give pleasure to your brain. Your brain is like a machine and it needs to be oiled, while studying makes the brain work. Having fun gives the brain repair; to make it suitable for better studies. Research shows that students who have a break from study always come back re-energized and better for reading and I noticed this in excellent grades student.

These compilation streams down my thought, it can either be considered as true or false.