BEING A LADY IS EXPENSIVE

In my lifetime, I have met a considerable number of young women, who I would like to call ladies, and in all my interactions and familiarities I found out one common denominator about ladies. Ladies best friend is money. Especially those that enjoy looking good, I mean it’s not bad to like money and look good, in fact it attract goodness to you, while the bad part is to use it to oppress.

So recently, I was talking to my cousin a girl, who schools in Babcock University, and when she was telling me about her girlfriends, she said something and it’s funny how true it is ‘being a lady is expensive’ it’s like been sick and you need constant medication to sustain your health, while ladies need to constantly look good from buying of wigs, perfumes, bags, cloths, shoes, makeup kits, creams, accessories and endless list of want they want, which guys don’t even think about. And to have all this she needs money, so in a logical deduction ladies need money to look good, therefore being a lady is expensive.

In my opinion I see nothing wrong in ladies loving money, it delight me to see a beautiful girl, but what delight me more is seeing a lady been independent and beautiful, not depending and beautiful. It’s okay to be expensive but not by every cost ,to me ‘being expensive’ start from the mindset, the interior, it’s called confidence not the exterior called physical attributes, being expensive is been independent not dependent on guys, being expensive is not hard to get, but hard to forget, being expensive is to have a purpose, not oppose, this what makes a lady expensive to a guy not necessarily the material things,

A lady who has mastered the art of discipline not arrogance, determination not over ambitiousness, self-worth not pride is who a guy knees down for, the true essence of being an expensive lady is been classy, independent, smart, respectful and beautiful.