Okay, some people fall into the friend zone, some fall into the well and some are caged into the zone, the worst part is being in the brother zone but hey, there are some ways to avoid this zone with someone you truly like. So, what’s a friend zone? This zone involves two friends, opposite sex usually, that are just friends basically and nothing attached, there are restrictions and limitations in this relationship. I will give you steps on how to avoid this zone.
First rule to avoid this zone is hey, don’t behave like a friend. Because apparently you fall into the friend zone when you behave or act like a friend. Spice it up than just being an ordinary friend.
1. Be a friend without behaving like other friends:
This is the principal rule. Don’t get all intimate with issues that doesn’t involve intimacy i.e. talk more about her sexual life than friends issue. This gives her a hit about what you want.
2. Degree of closeness: sometimes we think when we get really close to a girl she’s going to get attracted and fall, well this doesn’t always happen when you don’t give room for her to miss you, she will forget to remember how great you are, value diminishes and you become just random close friend.
3. Be a Chameleon: This is like 2face not literally 2face I mean have two different personalities, the all caring guy and the all I don’t give a fuck guy. Just let there be an air of suspense and let her crave for what you want.
4. Treat her like a Queen: here you act like the boy friend, what a boyfriend would do to his girlfriend you try as much as possible to do, buy her stuffs, hug her and treat her well. Make her feel special, treat her like she is the only girl in the world.
5. Make her miss you: hey, don’t even call her everyday, call her when necessary and don’t ask her cranky question, ask question as If you guys are in a relationship. Be a man, but never be imposing
6. Flirt playfully: At this point, you probably already have some chemistry. Just set in some playful remarks but be careful with your naughty remarks. Some girls detest it, but never shy away from flirting once a while.
7. Never show insecurity: Well, we guys always get this especially when the girl is really hot, we probably think she is too good and let our insecurity get the best of us. Never let this happen, fight for her by becoming a great guy.
8. Ask her on a date: This stage is like the final stage, apparently she gets to understand you want more than just friendship and by play all this trick perfectly well, you get the girl perfectly well without falling into the zone.
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